有无大家都常说随缘、随缘，到底随的什么缘呢？
随缘就是无缘。在我看来大多数人遇到了难搞的人和事，都会逃避，说上一句随缘。在我们遇到困难或是困境的时候，迎难而上的勇气和心态并不是大多数人所拥有的。同时，接受自己比较弱这个事实也是难以被接受的。所以，我们都会说上一句随缘来逃避。面对有选择的条件，请不要轻易说随缘，因为一旦你说了，就暗示着无缘，即将错过。比如“有缘相见”，通常就是基本无缘的征兆。
因上努力，果上随缘。在可以逆转的情况下，我们用积极进取代替随缘。成功在事实上来说是不可复制的，因为你无法找到一模一样的天时地利人和。但在另外一个角度上看，成功是可以模拟的，我们可以尽可能地模拟它的天时地利人和。但在当我们做好了一切力所能及的事情后，也就是完成一切提高成功概率的事情，剩下的无法模拟的不确定因素，才能算了“随缘”。也就是尽人事，听天命。
When people are talking about fate, what they mean?
Fate is nothing, my opinion is the majority of people come difficult, and they tend to escape and said: "That is my fate." That causes a lot of people short of encouragement in front of hardship. Especially, It's hard to accept that I am poor and weak. Probably that's the reason why we like to say fate! In front of them, please don't say that's fate. Cause you did, it means you lost it. That's a symbol.
Just do it. we are positive as much as possible. Success can not be copied, that's according there isn't the same circumstance around the world. On the other hand, we can mimic the way of success, I duplicate all condition relatively. After we did whatever we can expect the thing we can not control, perhaps that's the time we can say unfortunately.